I Against I: Reframing Envy Into Inspiration
The creative industry is growing rapidly. With masters of every craft sharing free, and easily accessible knowledge online, becoming a creator has never been easier. Novices are becoming experts at an accelerated rate, inflating our industry with unbelievable talent. Unfortunately in every industry, competition is inevitable. Everyone is striving for the same thing: improved artistic ability, consistent clients, financial independence, influence, and power. The prospect of being left behind is terrifying to even the most established artist, bringing out the worst in your fellow competitor. Comparing our progress to that of others only leads to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. In worse cases, animosity, theft, and degradation. While I don’t have what one would consider an illustrious photography career, I’ve witnessed and experienced backbiting as a result of envy. When we succumb to envy, we not only stifle our own advancement, but we also rob ourselves of the joy of creating.
en·vy: the desire to have a quality, possession, or other desirable attribute belonging to (someone else).
At first glance, it doesn’t seem all that horrible. Right? Because it isn’t. Setting your sights high and having great expectations for yourself is a wonderful thing. The poison is the notion that others are undeserving of their success, and believing that you are entitled to what others have earned.
I just want to preface this by saying: Your mind is in the right place. There is, once again, nothing wrong with desiring more for yourself. But understand: When you harbor resentment towards those who toiled tirelessly to achieve success, you (subconsciously) assume yourself inferior to your presumed superiors. Your once passion for art becomes reduced to senseless rivalry, hindering your own growth and creativity. Only by ceasing to compete with anyone other than yourself will you rediscover the joy and fulfillment in your creative process.
Reframe Envy Into Inspiration
In the book The Laws of Human Nature, Robert Greene writes about reframing envy into admiration. The first step is to recognize it. Sit down and investigate the source of your poison. We all aspire to the expertise of our craft. Ask "What can I learn from this person's success? What steps can I take to achieve similar results?" We are in an age in which knowledge is easily accessible, as was previously mentioned. With a quick search and a few taps, you can locate an endless amount of resourceful information if you're lacking in a particular area. Use your knowledge as a catalyst for your own growth and development. In doing so, you will come to realize that those you envy are richly deserving of their rewards. Take comfort in the fact that their success is not limited to anyone, no matter how inflated our industry is. Cast your cares on honing your skills, and everything else will fall into place. By taking action and reframing envy as admiration, we can redirect our negative feelings into a positive force for change.
One of One
Greene also writes about recognizing and capitalizing on our unique strengths and skills rather than focusing on our flaws. You’ll find that you possess a skill that even the most accomplished artists lack. Determine what sets you apart and where you need to improve. The author also encourages the reader to learn from those they admire and seek out mentors or role models who can guide them toward their goals. Refrain from heavily emulating your influences and delight in the idea of creating the first you. Utilize their knowledge to forge your own creative independence. Everyone has their own journey. Comparing ourselves to others only leads to frustration and disappointment. Stay in your own lane, go at your own pace, and above all else, have fun. It will only be a matter of time before it's your turn if you remain true to yourself and relish in your own personal growth.
“My advice (for what it’s worth) for success and happiness: Compete with yourself and root for everybody else.”
Source: The Laws of Human Nature (Robert Greene) — Chapter 10: Beware the Fragile Ego (The Law of Envy)